Guest Blogger: Anne Jolles
Wouldn’t that be great? No, It wouldn’t! But I bet it would sell!
I think that is what many of us are striving for… vitality, positivity and grace. Sounds good. And it feels good when we can land there. Unfortunately, we often seem to be looking in all the wrong places. We Americans have never been more medicated, in debt, overweight or addicted. Yikes! Sorry to remind you of that reality.
These times are full of uncertainty and turmoil, and they are full of potential for positive change. Chaos often precedes change. This can be a time for transformation for us. I know at times, I feel very vulnerable, as many of my friends, family and colleagues do. We can’t stop what’s going on in the world but we can learn to do things differently if we choose. We can learn to be more resilient. Resiliency leads to resourcefulness. That is a skill set we really need today.
And it has to start right here inside each of us… It all depends on us making different choices. The big challenge is:
“How do we access our best during these challenging times?”
Though the circumstances are certainly different, the question is the same one that each of my parents were faced with in their lives. They faced even tougher times.
Top Two Strategies
There are two strategies that most resilient people in the world use.
- The first is to remain calm during adversity. If unable to do that, then they are able to return to calm quickly following and recenter themselves in order to re-focus. This can be learned.
- The second step is to engage in the practice of positive inquiry. Just asking questions and being curious is an admission that you don’t have all the answers. Whew! What a relief that is!
Direct your energies by asking questions that point to the positives or strengths in a situation, like:
- What is going right?
- What is in my control?
- What is the lesson here?
- What do I desire?
When I am able to do that, I land in a place closer to vitality, positivity and grace.
Questions bring us beyond what we already know… beyond what we currently feeling. They help us to find the answers so we can start living them.
Feeling vulnerable feels like the new normal.
That’s not so bad as long as we don’t assume we know what the future holds. Getting comfortable with this discomfort can help us to stay right there instead of searching for the many ways we do to alleviate the feeling.
Finding new ways of coping and moving in the direction of resourcefulness, are not just important but I will go as far as to say your life depends on it!
So, let’s gather all our strategies and tools for bringing our best to just this moment… Because that is all we really have. And let’s gather our resolve to make the most of our precious time on earth.
Anne Jolles is offering a 5 week webinar, Rise and Shine Anytime: 5 Steps for Bringing Your Best To The Next Moment. You will learn strategies and tools to increase positivity, resilience and grace while earning 5 CEU’s from ICF.
Learn more at www.riseandshineanytime.com